"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone else experience this?

Fuglydude

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hey all,

One of the components of this site deals w/ techniques to attract women. One of the techniques that I've found works absolutely amazing is going to a club and just jamming on the dance floor by yourself. I LOVE music...and I'm a dancer (i'm not very good at all!) so just jamming at clubs is like doing drills for me. Its a great chance for me to practice and get my nervous system used to different beats.

The funny thing is...there's been many instances where I'll be jamming by myself, and there will be ample IOIs from multiple chics around me. I'm not trying to pick any of these girls up, I'm just zoning out to the music...yet these girls are interested. IOIs' I've seen range from just eye contact and smiles to "getting freaked from behind" by chics to ass-grabbing to having girls being pushed into me by their friends, etc... Also, its always fairly attractive women (HB7 and up) that seem to approach/show bolder IOIs. The weirdest thing about this "technique" (if you wanna call it that) is the "success" rate. There's literally been no bars/clubs that I can remember where I've done this for any significant time and NOT gotten consistent IOIs from atleast some chics.

I'm just wondering if anyone else gets this...I guess I'm just weird for dancing by myself...but I don't really care what anyone thinks of me, so its not like i feel socially awkward doing it. You'd think that chics would think you're an anti-social freak for dancing by yourself...so why is this technique so successful? Does anyone else experience this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vypros

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Learning to dance is probably one of the LARGEST Don Juan weapons you can have in your arsenal.

It's one of the few things you can do to get girls to approach YOU.

Seriously, for those who don't know how to dance, LEARN TO DANCE.
 

ryannath

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So, you go and dance by yourself. I bet you look like a doofis doing that. I wouldn't go around dancing with myself, but if it works, cool.
 
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