Ok with much just cause, i told my ex gf to **** off. I told her if she messages me on aim i will block her, if she emails me i will delete it. Yet today she messages me, and asks me for my phone number. And i say why the hell do you want my number? And she goes "i met some hot metal girl at sticks and strings".... and im like "thats nice, then blocked her." She gets on a different sn and starts bugging me for it again, and figures it out on her own. Why the hell would she message me knowing i hate her and will block her, to get my number to give to some "girl" she met. I think its freaking bull****.
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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lol...don't ever tell a girl you are going to ignore her. In doing so you basically challenged/dared her to try to get you to respond to her. Even though you blocked her...you still responded first, lol. She won and got the satisfaction that she got a response.Originally posted by Swede54
Ok with much just cause, i told my ex gf to **** off. I told her if she messages me on aim i will block her, if she emails me i will delete it. Yet today she messages me, and asks me for my phone number. And i say why the hell do you want my number? And she goes "i met some hot metal girl at sticks and strings".... and im like "thats nice, then blocked her." She gets on a different sn and starts bugging me for it again, and figures it out on her own. Why the hell would she message me knowing i hate her and will block her, to get my number to give to some "girl" she met. I think its freaking bull****.
If you want to ignore someone...just ignore them...don't announce it to them because then you paint yourself into a corner.
thefonz
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ya, telling girls to **** of is something i woulda done as an afc......sounds to me like you need to go read i'msopimp's post on controlling you're emotions man, emotions are for girls
bro this has nothing to do with being afc, this girl did many things to me. She lied, cheated on me, planned my own assault in a parking lot so other guys would jump me. Physically attacked me herself, and she has mental issues. I think telling her to **** off is fine.Originally posted by thefonz
ya, telling girls to **** of is something i woulda done as an afc......sounds to me like you need to go read i'msopimp's post on controlling you're emotions man, emotions are for girls
She sounds like a real peach...and I can't help but ask what on earth you saw in her.Originally posted by Swede54
bro this has nothing to do with being afc, this girl did many things to me. She lied, cheated on me, planned my own assault in a parking lot so other guys would jump me. Physically attacked me herself, and she has mental issues. I think telling her to **** off is fine.
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i dont know bro. But apparently she emailed me. I had a flyer at the music store saying i was looking for people to play with. thats why she asked for my number to see if that was it the email said. "Yeah baby because you know the ladies are just waitin' in line to get yo' number. Haha, wow. I want your number to see if this thing is yours or not. We're gonna end up calling the number anyway. haha oh man "Seeking true black metal guitarist".Originally posted by Wyldfire
She sounds like a real peach...and I can't help but ask what on earth you saw in her.
svart metall er kjærlighet<3 "
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Yes.. I have cracked the code....
It says "Run!!! Run as far away as you can!!!"
It says "Run!!! Run as far away as you can!!!"
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yeahhhhhhhhhhOriginally posted by Swede54
i dont know bro. But apparently she emailed me. I had a flyer at the music store saying i was looking for people to play with. thats why she asked for my number to see if that was it the email said. "Yeah baby because you know the ladies are just waitin' in line to get yo' number. Haha, wow. I want your number to see if this thing is yours or not. We're gonna end up calling the number anyway. haha oh man "Seeking true black metal guitarist".
svart metall er kjærlighet<3 "
get the f away from her
agreed. after telling her to shut the **** up liek 30 times. Because i kept getting mad and replying. I figured out how to have hotmail automatically delete incoming mail from her. Good, now she hopefully won't talk to me any other ways.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If she tries to contact you other ways, just ignore her. She's looking to get a rise out of you and everytime you react to what she does and respond to her you are rewarding her. Don't reward her in any way, shape or form. When she figures out that she's not getting the negative attention (aka reward) she'll find another target to pester. Be strong...Originally posted by Swede54
agreed. after telling her to shut the **** up liek 30 times. Because i kept getting mad and replying. I figured out how to have hotmail automatically delete incoming mail from her. Good, now she hopefully won't talk to me any other ways.
she an AW if you ask me. has all the signs. I loved this girl for some reason(before she did physco ****), now all i do his hate her guts.Originally posted by Wyldfire
If she tries to contact you other ways, just ignore her. She's looking to get a rise out of you and everytime you react to what she does and respond to her you are rewarding her. Don't reward her in any way, shape or form. When she figures out that she's not getting the negative attention (aka reward) she'll find another target to pester. Be strong...
Oh, she's far more than an "AW"...she's a Attention Wh*re/Emotional Terrorist Hybrid. Pure evil and entirely diabolical.Originally posted by Swede54
she an AW if you ask me. has all the signs. I loved this girl for some reason(before she did physco ****), now all i do his hate her guts.
oh i completely agree. I feel alright tho. Her current bf is real queer and i can tell hes her *****. I feel good tho, having sucess with my band and all.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Oh, she's far more than an "AW"...she's a Attention Wh*re/Emotional Terrorist Hybrid. Pure evil and entirely diabolical.
Well there you go...Originally posted by Swede54
oh i completely agree. I feel alright tho. Her current bf is real queer and i can tell hes her *****. I feel good tho, having sucess with my band and all.
She'll get bored with bothering you as long as you ignore her. It might take a little while, but it will work.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.