Ok with much just cause, i told my ex gf to **** off. I told her if she messages me on aim i will block her, if she emails me i will delete it. Yet today she messages me, and asks me for my phone number. And i say why the hell do you want my number? And she goes "i met some hot metal girl at sticks and strings".... and im like "thats nice, then blocked her." She gets on a different sn and starts bugging me for it again, and figures it out on her own. Why the hell would she message me knowing i hate her and will block her, to get my number to give to some "girl" she met. I think its freaking bull****.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
anyoen wana decipher this bs?
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lol...don't ever tell a girl you are going to ignore her. In doing so you basically challenged/dared her to try to get you to respond to her. Even though you blocked her...you still responded first, lol. She won and got the satisfaction that she got a response.Originally posted by Swede54
Ok with much just cause, i told my ex gf to **** off. I told her if she messages me on aim i will block her, if she emails me i will delete it. Yet today she messages me, and asks me for my phone number. And i say why the hell do you want my number? And she goes "i met some hot metal girl at sticks and strings".... and im like "thats nice, then blocked her." She gets on a different sn and starts bugging me for it again, and figures it out on her own. Why the hell would she message me knowing i hate her and will block her, to get my number to give to some "girl" she met. I think its freaking bull****.
If you want to ignore someone...just ignore them...don't announce it to them because then you paint yourself into a corner.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
ya, telling girls to **** of is something i woulda done as an afc......sounds to me like you need to go read i'msopimp's post on controlling you're emotions man, emotions are for girls
bro this has nothing to do with being afc, this girl did many things to me. She lied, cheated on me, planned my own assault in a parking lot so other guys would jump me. Physically attacked me herself, and she has mental issues. I think telling her to **** off is fine.Originally posted by thefonz
ya, telling girls to **** of is something i woulda done as an afc......sounds to me like you need to go read i'msopimp's post on controlling you're emotions man, emotions are for girls
She sounds like a real peach...and I can't help but ask what on earth you saw in her.Originally posted by Swede54
bro this has nothing to do with being afc, this girl did many things to me. She lied, cheated on me, planned my own assault in a parking lot so other guys would jump me. Physically attacked me herself, and she has mental issues. I think telling her to **** off is fine.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i dont know bro. But apparently she emailed me. I had a flyer at the music store saying i was looking for people to play with. thats why she asked for my number to see if that was it the email said. "Yeah baby because you know the ladies are just waitin' in line to get yo' number. Haha, wow. I want your number to see if this thing is yours or not. We're gonna end up calling the number anyway. haha oh man "Seeking true black metal guitarist".Originally posted by Wyldfire
She sounds like a real peach...and I can't help but ask what on earth you saw in her.
svart metall er kjærlighet<3 "
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Yes.. I have cracked the code....
It says "Run!!! Run as far away as you can!!!"
It says "Run!!! Run as far away as you can!!!"
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
yeahhhhhhhhhhOriginally posted by Swede54
i dont know bro. But apparently she emailed me. I had a flyer at the music store saying i was looking for people to play with. thats why she asked for my number to see if that was it the email said. "Yeah baby because you know the ladies are just waitin' in line to get yo' number. Haha, wow. I want your number to see if this thing is yours or not. We're gonna end up calling the number anyway. haha oh man "Seeking true black metal guitarist".
svart metall er kjærlighet<3 "
get the f away from her
agreed. after telling her to shut the **** up liek 30 times. Because i kept getting mad and replying. I figured out how to have hotmail automatically delete incoming mail from her. Good, now she hopefully won't talk to me any other ways.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If she tries to contact you other ways, just ignore her. She's looking to get a rise out of you and everytime you react to what she does and respond to her you are rewarding her. Don't reward her in any way, shape or form. When she figures out that she's not getting the negative attention (aka reward) she'll find another target to pester. Be strong...Originally posted by Swede54
agreed. after telling her to shut the **** up liek 30 times. Because i kept getting mad and replying. I figured out how to have hotmail automatically delete incoming mail from her. Good, now she hopefully won't talk to me any other ways.
she an AW if you ask me. has all the signs. I loved this girl for some reason(before she did physco ****), now all i do his hate her guts.Originally posted by Wyldfire
If she tries to contact you other ways, just ignore her. She's looking to get a rise out of you and everytime you react to what she does and respond to her you are rewarding her. Don't reward her in any way, shape or form. When she figures out that she's not getting the negative attention (aka reward) she'll find another target to pester. Be strong...
Oh, she's far more than an "AW"...she's a Attention Wh*re/Emotional Terrorist Hybrid. Pure evil and entirely diabolical.Originally posted by Swede54
she an AW if you ask me. has all the signs. I loved this girl for some reason(before she did physco ****), now all i do his hate her guts.
oh i completely agree. I feel alright tho. Her current bf is real queer and i can tell hes her *****. I feel good tho, having sucess with my band and all.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Oh, she's far more than an "AW"...she's a Attention Wh*re/Emotional Terrorist Hybrid. Pure evil and entirely diabolical.
Well there you go...Originally posted by Swede54
oh i completely agree. I feel alright tho. Her current bf is real queer and i can tell hes her *****. I feel good tho, having sucess with my band and all.
She'll get bored with bothering you as long as you ignore her. It might take a little while, but it will work.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.