"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Anybody in UT(Utah) Bountiful area?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Z Man
Don Juan
Are you a Mormon by chance? I am and feel I am walking a thin line sometimes between being a DJ and waiting until marriage for sex, etc.
Z Man
Don Juan
Young Mormon women are encouraged to date a RM (returned missionary) thus feeding the myth that you have to serve a mission. Unfortunately, it seems that while men on missions are encouraged to interact and persuade others to "convert" and be baptized, they are not allowed to be alone with women, nor think about sex, no hugs, etc. almost to the point of shame if you do!
I'm not slamming my religion as a whole or the doctrine I believe, only in some of the culture over the last generation that has warped some of our minds into thinking sexual thoughts are evil, therefore many of us become AFC and are afraid to touch women.:nono:
It has taken me years to lose my fear of touch and therefore I no longer fear women and like them more.
Didn't mean to go offtopic. So, other Utahns in this forum?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.