"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anybody in UT(Utah) Bountiful area?

Eiljwa

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Any cool guys in bountiful, centerville farmington or pretty much the surrounding area. I am 18.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Z Man

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Hi. I am in Utah county (Orem aka a college town).

Are you a Mormon by chance? I am and feel I am walking a thin line sometimes between being a DJ and waiting until marriage for sex, etc.
 

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Yeah, I know how that goes. I am 18 and mission bound (hopefully). I just came across this site looking for ways to meet more girls and have some fun before my mission. Not too much fun though, if you know what I mean.
 

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Mormon missionaries hit on me all the time. You guys know what I mean. There are some countries on this planet where you hang around parks, bus stops, and at the top of metro (subway) stairs. The sunny all-American smile usually gives you away. The name tag doesn't hurt either. After a while you head back to safety with other missionaries. I would think hitting on girls would be simple for you.
 

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Yeah, theoretically going on a mission is supposed to be a coming-of-age sort of thing for young Mormon men. They get a taste of life away from home and interacting with other people. After 2 years we are supposed to return home and get married.

Young Mormon women are encouraged to date a RM (returned missionary) thus feeding the myth that you have to serve a mission. Unfortunately, it seems that while men on missions are encouraged to interact and persuade others to "convert" and be baptized, they are not allowed to be alone with women, nor think about sex, no hugs, etc. almost to the point of shame if you do!

I'm not slamming my religion as a whole or the doctrine I believe, only in some of the culture over the last generation that has warped some of our minds into thinking sexual thoughts are evil, therefore many of us become AFC and are afraid to touch women.:nono:

It has taken me years to lose my fear of touch and therefore I no longer fear women and like them more. :)

Didn't mean to go offtopic. So, other Utahns in this forum?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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