"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anybody feel like their level of game increased dramatically out of nowhere...

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with no real changes you can see? I started back at college (I'm 25). I tried cold approaching for about a week and a half and was not even acknowledged most of the time. After seeing another thread warning that word can travel fast on a college campus, I decided to focus on school and not mack chicks there. I went about my business for about two weeks.

Last Thursday, I pulled 4 numbers without even trying, and another one I could have gotten but I wimped out cause she had friends with her. Then I see a chick from work at the club. She didn't give me play before but I got her number that night. Saturday another chick from work that rejected me before asks me out. I'm feeling pretty good right now.

I'm still trying to figure out what changed that would have chicks opening me, which has never happened before, and could have two chicks that rejected me start giving me play.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting numbers is small step out of the door but don't base the level of your game on obtaining numbers.
 
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^^True.

I find that things often start happening for me when I just dont give a sh!t....i.e. when I just focus on other aspects of life instead of dwelling on the girl thing.

It seems to be feast or famine. You either have things going on left and right or you're in an absolute desert with nothing on the horizon.
 
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