"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anybody feel like their level of game increased dramatically out of nowhere...

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with no real changes you can see? I started back at college (I'm 25). I tried cold approaching for about a week and a half and was not even acknowledged most of the time. After seeing another thread warning that word can travel fast on a college campus, I decided to focus on school and not mack chicks there. I went about my business for about two weeks.

Last Thursday, I pulled 4 numbers without even trying, and another one I could have gotten but I wimped out cause she had friends with her. Then I see a chick from work at the club. She didn't give me play before but I got her number that night. Saturday another chick from work that rejected me before asks me out. I'm feeling pretty good right now.

I'm still trying to figure out what changed that would have chicks opening me, which has never happened before, and could have two chicks that rejected me start giving me play.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting numbers is small step out of the door but don't base the level of your game on obtaining numbers.
 
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^^True.

I find that things often start happening for me when I just dont give a sh!t....i.e. when I just focus on other aspects of life instead of dwelling on the girl thing.

It seems to be feast or famine. You either have things going on left and right or you're in an absolute desert with nothing on the horizon.
 
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