"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anybody feel like their level of game increased dramatically out of nowhere...

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with no real changes you can see? I started back at college (I'm 25). I tried cold approaching for about a week and a half and was not even acknowledged most of the time. After seeing another thread warning that word can travel fast on a college campus, I decided to focus on school and not mack chicks there. I went about my business for about two weeks.

Last Thursday, I pulled 4 numbers without even trying, and another one I could have gotten but I wimped out cause she had friends with her. Then I see a chick from work at the club. She didn't give me play before but I got her number that night. Saturday another chick from work that rejected me before asks me out. I'm feeling pretty good right now.

I'm still trying to figure out what changed that would have chicks opening me, which has never happened before, and could have two chicks that rejected me start giving me play.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting numbers is small step out of the door but don't base the level of your game on obtaining numbers.
 
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^^True.

I find that things often start happening for me when I just dont give a sh!t....i.e. when I just focus on other aspects of life instead of dwelling on the girl thing.

It seems to be feast or famine. You either have things going on left and right or you're in an absolute desert with nothing on the horizon.
 
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