"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anybody ever try meetup.com?

lakeshore

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Its a site that has different groups that people create and join. Then you meet and do whatever your group is into. It can be about anything, reading books, motorcycle riding, happy hours, alien searching, whatever.

I went to a couple. Its actually a fairly decent way to get out and meet some new people for those of us who want to expand socially. We want to meet new people and try different things but cant find the means perhaps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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my coworker recommended it to me. do they like people who are not social at all and just want to listen to the company without taking part in the conversation?
 

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dude04 said:
my coworker recommended it to me. do they like people who are not social at all and just want to listen to the company without taking part in the conversation?
Well, I think you're over thinking this. Just go for it, if you want to talk, talk. If not, then don't. Just get out there and don't worry about it. :up:
 
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