"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anybody ever try meetup.com?

lakeshore

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Its a site that has different groups that people create and join. Then you meet and do whatever your group is into. It can be about anything, reading books, motorcycle riding, happy hours, alien searching, whatever.

I went to a couple. Its actually a fairly decent way to get out and meet some new people for those of us who want to expand socially. We want to meet new people and try different things but cant find the means perhaps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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my coworker recommended it to me. do they like people who are not social at all and just want to listen to the company without taking part in the conversation?
 

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dude04 said:
my coworker recommended it to me. do they like people who are not social at all and just want to listen to the company without taking part in the conversation?
Well, I think you're over thinking this. Just go for it, if you want to talk, talk. If not, then don't. Just get out there and don't worry about it. :up:
 
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