"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anybody else feel this way:

tristan22

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I have had my fair share of rejection, however when i do get a female interested in me i lose a lot of interest in her and i become unmotivated in wanting to further the relationship.

When i try to rationalize my thought process and emotions on this particular matter, i really start to question myself and my motive.

One day i'm upset that i'm single and another day i have options yet i still don't feel satisified and happy. Perhaps i'm lazy or i get cold feet. Either way i want to change this ridiculousness that overcomes me when i meet/date a perfectly fine female.

Any suggestions or criticism?

Tristan
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member."

- Karl Marx

This quote is absolutely no use to you whatsoever. ;)

-> Beethoven
 

Frank Zappa

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Originally posted by Beethoven
"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member."

- Karl Marx

This quote is absolutely no use to you whatsoever. ;)

-> Beethoven

It's more like

"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member."

- Groucho Marx

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-Karl Marx
 

mahon83050

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I kind of feel the same way you do sometimes. It is like, no matter what situation you are in, the grass is always greener on the other side. I always seem to think if I am seeing somebody, something better will come along.
 

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Tristan22,
You are a "HUNTER". You love the chase...but after you get "the prize" you think: "That was fun...what's next?"

You might want to focus on keeping your "the prize" for a while. Look for a girl who won't bore you like the others do. One that represents a constant challenge to keep you interested in her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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when you ca get a girl, you probably think you can do better. You start wondering if she's not good enough, because you got her. You then want something you can't have, something you have to work for. It's true for most people, it's weird the way the human mind works.
 

sux2bu

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Originally posted by Unbridled_1
when you ca get a girl, you probably think you can do better. You start wondering if she's not good enough, because you got her. You then want something you can't have, something you have to work for. It's true for most people, it's weird the way the human mind works.
This is an ironic statement because girls use the same logic.

Girl: "what do you think of my new boyfriend?

Girlfriend: "he's cute but I think you can do wAy BeTTerz."


:rolleyes:
 
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