"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anybody else feel this way:

tristan22

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I have had my fair share of rejection, however when i do get a female interested in me i lose a lot of interest in her and i become unmotivated in wanting to further the relationship.

When i try to rationalize my thought process and emotions on this particular matter, i really start to question myself and my motive.

One day i'm upset that i'm single and another day i have options yet i still don't feel satisified and happy. Perhaps i'm lazy or i get cold feet. Either way i want to change this ridiculousness that overcomes me when i meet/date a perfectly fine female.

Any suggestions or criticism?

Tristan
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member."

- Karl Marx

This quote is absolutely no use to you whatsoever. ;)

-> Beethoven
 

Frank Zappa

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Originally posted by Beethoven
"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member."

- Karl Marx

This quote is absolutely no use to you whatsoever. ;)

-> Beethoven

It's more like

"I don't care to belong to any club that will have me as a member."

- Groucho Marx

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"Must crush capitalism, must crush capitalism grrr..."

-Karl Marx
 

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I kind of feel the same way you do sometimes. It is like, no matter what situation you are in, the grass is always greener on the other side. I always seem to think if I am seeing somebody, something better will come along.
 

WaterTiger

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Tristan22,
You are a "HUNTER". You love the chase...but after you get "the prize" you think: "That was fun...what's next?"

You might want to focus on keeping your "the prize" for a while. Look for a girl who won't bore you like the others do. One that represents a constant challenge to keep you interested in her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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when you ca get a girl, you probably think you can do better. You start wondering if she's not good enough, because you got her. You then want something you can't have, something you have to work for. It's true for most people, it's weird the way the human mind works.
 

sux2bu

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Originally posted by Unbridled_1
when you ca get a girl, you probably think you can do better. You start wondering if she's not good enough, because you got her. You then want something you can't have, something you have to work for. It's true for most people, it's weird the way the human mind works.
This is an ironic statement because girls use the same logic.

Girl: "what do you think of my new boyfriend?

Girlfriend: "he's cute but I think you can do wAy BeTTerz."


:rolleyes:
 
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