"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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arcilitei34

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Ok, yesterday me and my Gf were making out quite a bit because she just got back from vacation, i was sitting in a chair and she was sitting in my lap, and we were making out, right then and there i got a huge erection and it was painful, because she was basically crushing it(she probably felt it poking her ass too not that it makes a differance i dont think) is this normal? Should i tell her that she's crushing my nuts or something next time? it seems that everytime she's on top she either knee's me in the nuts, or hurts me in that area.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jerky Boi

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Haha, man just tell her unless you want to have some kind of an operation in the future because you're having problems with your nuts. Make it suttle. I'm sure she'd tell you if you were hurting her the same way.
 
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If you don't want to tell her outright for whatever reason, just gently "reposition" her yourself.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Guitarfreakelite

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lol... dude.. it all comes down 2 u

wich do u preper ..your nuts crushed... or some action?
action come and go, your nuts you need to keep.. ya know?
 
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