"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Any way around this?

arcilitei34

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Ok, yesterday me and my Gf were making out quite a bit because she just got back from vacation, i was sitting in a chair and she was sitting in my lap, and we were making out, right then and there i got a huge erection and it was painful, because she was basically crushing it(she probably felt it poking her ass too not that it makes a differance i dont think) is this normal? Should i tell her that she's crushing my nuts or something next time? it seems that everytime she's on top she either knee's me in the nuts, or hurts me in that area.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jerky Boi

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Haha, man just tell her unless you want to have some kind of an operation in the future because you're having problems with your nuts. Make it suttle. I'm sure she'd tell you if you were hurting her the same way.
 

blienk

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If you don't want to tell her outright for whatever reason, just gently "reposition" her yourself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Guitarfreakelite

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lol... dude.. it all comes down 2 u

wich do u preper ..your nuts crushed... or some action?
action come and go, your nuts you need to keep.. ya know?
 
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