"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Any tips to quickly remove the "down" side?

neobrood

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I noticed that depression//bad mood// feeling "down" really screws up my game BIG TIME...


Any tips to kill depression? instantly?

Cuz I just screwed up... in English class... There was this HB8... and since I was in a depressed mood... uugh... failure... back to AFC mode... :(

But if I'm in a happy mood, I noticed that I just get women pretty easily...


Thanks for your help, guys...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WhitePimp

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I'm a naturally pretty low key person but I found a secret to help me feel a lot better and it usually works. I just start the day and make a goal for myself to accomplish and make sure I do it. It can be as simple as saying hey to 5 random chicks who I dont even know. It becomes a game after awhile and when I finally get done I usually feel like I accomplished something and I get somewhat of a natural high going. It sounds dumb but it's really just sort of a mind game to play on yourself to fool yourself into thinking you're really accomplishing something. It always helped me feel optimistic for the rest of the day
 

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Actually I just noticed you said instantly, so the above advice probably wont help you but I suggest just stop worrying about ****. I gave up caring about always being funny and "on" and I just did what I wanted and actually wound up having more success when I wasnt actively thinking about anything really.
 

frivolousz21

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its a mind state.

think about stuff that makes you happy..

then tell urself outloud 15 times in the mirror..how great you are.

and you will feel better..try it
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dukester

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do stuff that makes ya happy b4 class. or you could just be naturally happy with yourself, and your skills, looks, etc...

girls know when you are faking it- they can see right thru ya

my advice, look deep into yourself, and fix taht depression prob you have. talk to a friend, a doctor, take medicine if you have to- but get it fixed.

girls are more interested in people who are happy and cheerful- in fact, nobody likes someone who is always sad, glum and depressed. face it, that gets tiresome and annoying. trust me, i used to be there- now i'm a DJ
 
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