"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any tips to quickly remove the "down" side?

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I noticed that depression//bad mood// feeling "down" really screws up my game BIG TIME...


Any tips to kill depression? instantly?

Cuz I just screwed up... in English class... There was this HB8... and since I was in a depressed mood... uugh... failure... back to AFC mode... :(

But if I'm in a happy mood, I noticed that I just get women pretty easily...


Thanks for your help, guys...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm a naturally pretty low key person but I found a secret to help me feel a lot better and it usually works. I just start the day and make a goal for myself to accomplish and make sure I do it. It can be as simple as saying hey to 5 random chicks who I dont even know. It becomes a game after awhile and when I finally get done I usually feel like I accomplished something and I get somewhat of a natural high going. It sounds dumb but it's really just sort of a mind game to play on yourself to fool yourself into thinking you're really accomplishing something. It always helped me feel optimistic for the rest of the day
 
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Actually I just noticed you said instantly, so the above advice probably wont help you but I suggest just stop worrying about ****. I gave up caring about always being funny and "on" and I just did what I wanted and actually wound up having more success when I wasnt actively thinking about anything really.
 
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its a mind state.

think about stuff that makes you happy..

then tell urself outloud 15 times in the mirror..how great you are.

and you will feel better..try it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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do stuff that makes ya happy b4 class. or you could just be naturally happy with yourself, and your skills, looks, etc...

girls know when you are faking it- they can see right thru ya

my advice, look deep into yourself, and fix taht depression prob you have. talk to a friend, a doctor, take medicine if you have to- but get it fixed.

girls are more interested in people who are happy and cheerful- in fact, nobody likes someone who is always sad, glum and depressed. face it, that gets tiresome and annoying. trust me, i used to be there- now i'm a DJ
 
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