“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Any tips On pulling girls who post for validation?

BaronOfHair

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on insta/tiktok
is it worth pursuing or waste of time.
These gals you have eyes for


-Are they professional glamour models raking in the dough in exchange for bikini and lingerie photos, who also recognize that careers in this field are brief, thus have interests outside of modeling? Do they have more to offer, outside of a beautiful face and a sexy body?

Or

-Are they 6s at best, who describe themselves as sex workers outright
That use their IG presence as an appetizer, are oblivious to the fact that they've pretty much torched their prospects for future employment and finding a decent husband, once they've turned 30 and their following begins vanishing, faster than Twinkies whenever Lindy West is in the vicinity?




A man pursues chicks in the second category at his own peril
 

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You have to be in the same tier or higher than her. If you are not I wouldn’t even bother. She is not going to hook up with you out of sympathy.
 

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These gals you have eyes for


-Are they professional glamour models raking in the dough in exchange for bikini and lingerie photos, who also recognize that careers in this field are brief, thus have interests outside of modeling? Do they have more to offer, outside of a beautiful face and a sexy body?

Or

-Are they 6s at best, who describe themselves as sex workers outright
That use their IG presence as an appetizer, are oblivious to the fact that they've pretty much torched their prospects for future employment and finding a decent husband, once they've turned 30 and their following begins vanishing, faster than Twinkies whenever Lindy West is in the vicinity?




A man pursues chicks in the second category at his own peril
They are 5-6 at the best. looking for attention/validation from men... The one's i am talkking about are not getting much attention which i can tell by the comments i see on their insta/tiktok.
Some are local to me and some are 200 miles away...


these girls are not sex workers...but i want to make friends if i fail in laying them
 

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You have to be in the same tier or higher than her. If you are not I wouldn’t even bother. She is not going to hook up with you out of sympathy.
I have some game to run on them.... want to pratice and get better.
I am in little better tier than them.
 

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My ex posted for validation, 40 thousand followers. She convinced herself it was just because she liked taking photos. But ultimately she will use it to get the validation you arent giving her.

This is particularly bad when she has acted poorly towards you, you remove your attention and instead of her trying to win you back she just has thousands of simps telling her shes amazing, she will then resent you for not giving her the attention she "deserves"

Honestly OP, I spent 4 years trying to explain to this woman the above. Save your time and dont bother
 

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I have some game to run on them.... want to pratice and get better.
I am in little better tier than them.
If you are a higher tier than them, it shouldn’t be that difficult, since their interest level should also be high, as long as they are open to ma romantic relationship.
 

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If you are a higher tier than them, it shouldn’t be that difficult, since their interest level should also be high, as long as they are open to ma romantic relationship.
Thank you
Any tips on starting interesting conv's?
 

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Ah, the modern human.

"Please tell me how to do something so I don't have to go through the long, boring, and painful process of learning through trial and error..."
 

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Thank you
Any tips on starting interesting conv's?
  1. Use a funny pickup line: “I don’t normally chase people, but for you I’d put my Crocs in sport mode LOL Hi, my name is Jeff.”
  2. Reference one of her posts.
  3. If you have a good social media profile, she will either like your posts or comment on them.
  4. Ask her about her political affiliation. She will talk for hours about that. There is nothing sexual about this though but it will get her talking with a chance in landing in the friendzone.
Again, this is relative to your SMV, whether they have a void you can fill, and whether they see something exotic in you. If you meet these parameters, she will be highly interested and do most of the work. Attraction cannot be negotiated.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Troll them. You can have a chuckle and there's a small chance they'll bite.

Look up David D'Angelo's "c0cky/funny" thing or do a search for it here. The main key is you're amusing yourself, while you're teasing them without being too harsh about it.
 
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