Squy
Master Don Juan
Any size of crowd, from 5 to 500 people. What is the secret of the public speakers?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Any tips for talking to a crowd of people? (nervousness)
- Thread starter Squy
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
for me, I tend to lay most of the focus at looking at one person. I might "look over" the crowd from time to time, but I don't really "look"... then shift to look at another person...
atleast that works for me.
//Deus
atleast that works for me.
//Deus
ghazala
Don Juan
My Dad used to teach that we should never think others as superior or inferior to us. That helped me ... I can speak to anyone / crowds without getting butterflies in my tummies ... by the way I have the habit of looking into the eyes of others while talking (one on one basis ofcourse)
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