Squy
Master Don Juan
Any size of crowd, from 5 to 500 people. What is the secret of the public speakers?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Any tips for talking to a crowd of people? (nervousness)
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
for me, I tend to lay most of the focus at looking at one person. I might "look over" the crowd from time to time, but I don't really "look"... then shift to look at another person...
atleast that works for me.
//Deus
atleast that works for me.
//Deus
ghazala
Don Juan
My Dad used to teach that we should never think others as superior or inferior to us. That helped me ... I can speak to anyone / crowds without getting butterflies in my tummies ... by the way I have the habit of looking into the eyes of others while talking (one on one basis ofcourse)
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