Dhoulmagus
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Why lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Any reason on why we go nc for two weeks if a girl become flakey/unresponsive
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
mrgoodstuff
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Because it's a waste of time. It's like tennis or ping pong, you can't just keep popping balls in her court and she doesn't return them. She has to hit it back or you guys aren't playing together.
logicallefty
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It messes with their minds and sometimes that makes them change their ways and they end up being with you. But even if they don't, you always win anyway and walk away with something even better than the woman; your integrity.
mrgoodstuff
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Integrity, dignity and self-respect....
All it is is not rewarding bad behavior. When you still jump to them when they are flaking and minimizing whats important for you, you are rewarding bad behavior, and their selfish monster gets bigger and bigger.
Not being available, doing it back to them, nc, shrinks that selfish monster and gives it a repercussion.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It's also to strike a good contrast to other men. Other, blue pill men will make excuses for the lack of response ("women are busy too," "maybe she never got the message," etc.) and continue to text as if the silence is not a response.
I'll pose a follow-up thought - it should be even more apparent when a woman is unresponsive via text but after your message is delivered, even days later, you see her posting on social media from the same device. I've found very little value in "letting her know that I know" her silence equals deliberately ignoring me. Just file the information away for future reference about her track record toward you.
I'll pose a follow-up thought - it should be even more apparent when a woman is unresponsive via text but after your message is delivered, even days later, you see her posting on social media from the same device. I've found very little value in "letting her know that I know" her silence equals deliberately ignoring me. Just file the information away for future reference about her track record toward you.
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I dumped my gf for 3 weeks because she got pissed at me for something. I told her to go find something else then. 3 weeks no contact. Then she answers comes back our relationship is hotter than before. I stopped pissing her off though.
EyeBRollin
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There's no such thing as "no contact" as a method. Don't talk to people who aren't interested in you. It's that simple.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
mrgoodstuff
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It sure is disrespect to yourself. You also elevate her for her poor behavior.
nismo-4
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Why the f**k do guys waste their time on uninterested chicks? If something is going nowhere, cut and run. If a woman wants to be with you, she'll make it happen. If not, she'll find any excuse not to get with you.
Case closed. Thread closed. It really is that simple.
Case closed. Thread closed. It really is that simple.
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