Any PUAs here ever have plates that had lost a lot of weight? Is the residual morphic deflation disgusting?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading this, and it got me interested:

7 Ugly Truths of Becoming Skinny After Being Fat

I lost 70+ lbs, it’s great, but it’s not all that glamorous

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In a year, I did the impossible, I went from 213lbs to 140 lbs (from 96kg to 63kg) which means going from 32.8 BMI to 21.3 for my 5'8 (173cms) height.

Now I am at the weight I always wanted to maintain, I can see that I am far from perfect, and it takes a lot of mental strength to accept that I will never be. I am not as toned as I want to (I’m working on it), my skin will never be as firm as a teenager’s (yeah, who told me that it was a realistic expectation to start with), my body is still my 42-year-old body (and there’s nothing to do about it).

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Who cares? If she looks good fvck her.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Dump a chick that questions being fit and healthy...problem solved

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Here we go again...

 

[B80]

My now ex wife lost nearly 2 stone (carried it quite well as 5"10), joined a gym and gave up smoking a few months after we met and were serious - without me saying anything, she knew I was into gym, healthy eating etc.

Kept it off and gym regular until we divorced a few years ago... so 12 years or so. Now has massive gut, probably put on a good 3 stone. At one point blamed me, saying I caused her to have image issues - even though I never pressed her to lose weight in first place or at any point!!

Reading this site assured me that's not untypical of women, can't take responsibility, usually have to blame someone for their own failures/mishaps.