any overweight DJs who succeed in women

[ismo]

......just wanted to know...

 

[chicksrock]

in my experience
when i lost weight..
i gained more confidence
i knew that i am now good enough to score HBs...
HB's will find me sexy..and i DESERVE HB's.....

that's all the differrence weight made to my game

if you already have the confidence and KNOW you are good enuf ... then you are well on your way

 

[Player_Supreme]

What your asking is "Any Overweight lova's in da houze"--MC HeavyD

 

[Dirtheart]

When I was overweight I barely got any interest at all, except maybe two or three girls, and even then I didn't have the confidence to pursue them. But I hated being fat and carried it like a burden.

My friend, on the other hand, was very fat, but he was also extremely confident in himself. He was no ladies man and no woman ever approached him, but he made it happen for himself. He was a bit of a joker and good fun to be around, he'd hit on girls all the time and just make conversation with women in the street. They were rarely sexually interested in him, but most of them couldn't resist having a laugh with him, so he nearly always got a lot of positive responses.

But at the heart of it, he didn't take bullsh*t. If anyone ran him down because he was fat, he'd shoot back at them and had this great ability to humiliate anyone, regardless of who they were and how great they looked.

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

If you are overweight/unattractive you have to be on the offensive with women. Like DirtHeart said. Hillside strangler Angela Buono was no attractive man, but he had a harem of women he courted. Go Alpha but not loco..

 

[ismo]

...so you say that the main theme is confidence, right?

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Lots of overweight pickupartists, DJs I have no idea, the DJ term is just lame anyways since most people here are as suave as a dog.

I would suggest anyone that is interested in getting laid, getting over their fears etc to buy gunwitch new book and also attend some workshops like badboy and maybe start reading MASF since it's more about getting laid than whining about how you put on your socks to dare to talk to a 7 year old girl.

 

[carbani]

I'd say - the main theme is losing weight.

Women judge us basing on looks! When you look fat, you show that you don't take care of yourself, you can't commit yourself (can't commit to not eating so much), you most probably can't dance and move. You are assumed to be a non-sexual friend material until you prove otherwise.

When you drop that weight and begin to look good, you begin to get eye contact from random girls, you get better reactions and they assume that you are a lover material unless you prove otherwise.

I've been fat, now I'm thin. I know what I'm talking about.

Lose that weight, it will take less effort than learning to DJ with your current condition.

 

[ShortTimer]

...so you say that the main theme is confidence, right?

NO! Do most men like warpigs? For the same reasons women don't like fat men.

 

[Dirtheart]

I should add that the aforementioned friend did have a lot of girlfriends and flings (a LOT more than me), but there wasn't one that I'd rate above a 5.

 

[neobrood]

I'm overweight... and ugly... I can do something bout the overweight part... but it isnt my fault why im ugly. Thats how God created me...

But still I'm getting more success compared to the thinner and more "handsome" ones...

Looks only give u 10% advantage... So, I still have my 90%...

 

[Raven125]

Originally posted by neobrood
I'm overweight... and ugly... I can do something bout the overweight part... but it isnt my fault why im ugly. Thats how God created me...

But still I'm getting more success compared to the thinner and more "handsome" ones...

Looks only give u 10% advantage... So, I still have my 90%...

I disagree... It completely depends on how the person is. If the guy is EXTREMELY Obesse, then it's not likely he'll do well with the hotties... But being a little pudgy never hurt anyone.

 

[neobrood]

It completely depends on how the person is.

I got size 40 waistline...

can still run, can still move about, can still bend and touch the floor, can still do pushups and situps...

So i'm not really an extreme obese...

 

[Dirtheart]

Neobrood, you probably aren't genetically ugly at all, you just need to bring out your best features. I had a 40" waistline too and I accepted that I was "just ugly". My facial features looked kind of splayed and rounded. Since I lost the weight, I look totally different and I started to realise that girls dig my high cheekbones, which weren't noticeable before.

Don't accept that you're ugly because it's probably not true.

 

[maranathaman]

Originally posted by neobrood
I'm overweight... and ugly... I can do something bout the overweight part... but it isnt my fault why im ugly. Thats how God created me...

But still I'm getting more success compared to the thinner and more "handsome" ones...

Looks only give u 10% advantage... So, I still have my 90%...

While it IS true that most hot women are not attracted to fat guys, (and I know this from firsthand experience)
"ugly" truely IS in the eye of the beholder. So make the best of what you got to maximize your potential. Get in shape, wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, take a bath etc. In addition to looking your best, which will go along way in the right direction, as you are looking your best, your confidence will rise, which as we know, is also very attractive to the ladies. We can't all be Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise, but we can all make the best of what we got.
Every "Dog" has his day!