"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Any other sugestion?

Lord Sidious

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Hi, guys.

The other day, I was at a party with some friends. In this group were two HB I know. At some point one of them saw me sending a text in my mobile phone (let us call her HB1). So she says something like this (everybody was earing):

HB1: "Hmmm. Looks like Fabio is texting his girlfriend..."
Me: (Cool and calm, just smiled and said) You´d love to know if I have a girlfriend or not, but forget it, I won´t tell you."
HB1: "Ouch, looks like we have a bad boy here! (smiled at me). Do you think he has a girlfriend, Carmen? (HB2)"
HB2: "My opinion is that he simply doesn´t have any woman at all..."

(Everybody laughed)

Me: (Kept very calm) "Yeah, you´re righ. I don´t have any woman at all...LIKE YOU. I´m used to a much higher quality..."

(Everybody laughed again even more)


I think I did well. Would you have said something different?


Thanks
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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it's fine

no need to over analyse it though

what you could think about is did you isolate any of them? did you kiss close or number close any of them?

if so, great. if not, why not?

find and eliminate ur key sticking points rather than worrying about any particular thing you said.

can you see how that is helpful?
 

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stayfly said:
it's fine

no need to over analyse it though

what you could think about is did you isolate any of them? did you kiss close or number close any of them?

if so, great. if not, why not?

find and eliminate ur key sticking points rather than worrying about any particular thing you said.

can you see how that is helpful?

Yeah, I got the number from HB1. And about Carmen (HB2), screw her. I´ve noticed, however, somehow she liked what I said, which is normal.

My idea was to know some other line to say to that *****, that you guys could share. For future ocasions like this with other gals that say these sort of sh!tty things, you know...
 
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