Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Any other sugestion?

Lord Sidious

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Hi, guys.

The other day, I was at a party with some friends. In this group were two HB I know. At some point one of them saw me sending a text in my mobile phone (let us call her HB1). So she says something like this (everybody was earing):

HB1: "Hmmm. Looks like Fabio is texting his girlfriend..."
Me: (Cool and calm, just smiled and said) You´d love to know if I have a girlfriend or not, but forget it, I won´t tell you."
HB1: "Ouch, looks like we have a bad boy here! (smiled at me). Do you think he has a girlfriend, Carmen? (HB2)"
HB2: "My opinion is that he simply doesn´t have any woman at all..."

(Everybody laughed)

Me: (Kept very calm) "Yeah, you´re righ. I don´t have any woman at all...LIKE YOU. I´m used to a much higher quality..."

(Everybody laughed again even more)


I think I did well. Would you have said something different?


Thanks
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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stayfly

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it's fine

no need to over analyse it though

what you could think about is did you isolate any of them? did you kiss close or number close any of them?

if so, great. if not, why not?

find and eliminate ur key sticking points rather than worrying about any particular thing you said.

can you see how that is helpful?
 

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stayfly said:
it's fine

no need to over analyse it though

what you could think about is did you isolate any of them? did you kiss close or number close any of them?

if so, great. if not, why not?

find and eliminate ur key sticking points rather than worrying about any particular thing you said.

can you see how that is helpful?

Yeah, I got the number from HB1. And about Carmen (HB2), screw her. I´ve noticed, however, somehow she liked what I said, which is normal.

My idea was to know some other line to say to that *****, that you guys could share. For future ocasions like this with other gals that say these sort of sh!tty things, you know...
 
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