"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any other sugestion?

Lord Sidious

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Hi, guys.

The other day, I was at a party with some friends. In this group were two HB I know. At some point one of them saw me sending a text in my mobile phone (let us call her HB1). So she says something like this (everybody was earing):

HB1: "Hmmm. Looks like Fabio is texting his girlfriend..."
Me: (Cool and calm, just smiled and said) You´d love to know if I have a girlfriend or not, but forget it, I won´t tell you."
HB1: "Ouch, looks like we have a bad boy here! (smiled at me). Do you think he has a girlfriend, Carmen? (HB2)"
HB2: "My opinion is that he simply doesn´t have any woman at all..."

(Everybody laughed)

Me: (Kept very calm) "Yeah, you´re righ. I don´t have any woman at all...LIKE YOU. I´m used to a much higher quality..."

(Everybody laughed again even more)


I think I did well. Would you have said something different?


Thanks
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it's fine

no need to over analyse it though

what you could think about is did you isolate any of them? did you kiss close or number close any of them?

if so, great. if not, why not?

find and eliminate ur key sticking points rather than worrying about any particular thing you said.

can you see how that is helpful?
 

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stayfly said:
it's fine

no need to over analyse it though

what you could think about is did you isolate any of them? did you kiss close or number close any of them?

if so, great. if not, why not?

find and eliminate ur key sticking points rather than worrying about any particular thing you said.

can you see how that is helpful?

Yeah, I got the number from HB1. And about Carmen (HB2), screw her. I´ve noticed, however, somehow she liked what I said, which is normal.

My idea was to know some other line to say to that *****, that you guys could share. For future ocasions like this with other gals that say these sort of sh!tty things, you know...
 
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