"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any one who thinks that only a good looking guy can get a hot girl read this!

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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He doesn't look all that bad, seriously. Looks like he has all his sh!t together too. Also she may have issues herself, such as a need to nurture somebody injured or deformed and the guy reminds me of a sick puppy.
 
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The guy's got style and he's ripped. Looks like he made the best of a bad situation. Something to draw inspiration from.
 
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it's the tattoo's and the hair. i kid you not.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you think for one second that Sean Stephenson guy gets laid you are living in a fantasy world. He's a marketer and uses his recognition and money to land women.

That other guys face is a little off, but as others have mentioned, he's got a good frame. I'd say 6 foot 200 lbs. People give one scenario and say "see, looks don't matter." It's very misleading. What almost all of them fail to take into account is that it's the exception, not the rule. For every "ugly" guy with a hot girl, I can name 10 good looking, fit guys with hot girls.
 
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Certainly he is an exception, but the ways he is presenting himself is very much something what a DJ would do, and he possibly has a ton of personality and character to boot, changing what he has control of.
 
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Without knowing the history of these two, I'd say he has other redeeming qualities that make up for his deformity (as others have mentioned).

Whatever situation you might be in, "confidence" will lay the ground work for you to make something of yourself. You can begin to build confidence by taking risks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should getting laid be an ultimate life quest for a man? I seriously doubt I could get laid- I'm 24 and generally have an idea of how women see me. I pretty well tell when a woman is interested which is hardly ever, and I have come to accept that.

It is fair in this era I guess that a lot of guys shut themselves away and don't get out there because they assume that women only go for 'pretty boys', and predict rejection. I was like that also, feeling so hollow and empty and how life feels desolate where nothing happens. Being picked on in school and then getting dirty looks in college didn't help my outlook, and I started to think about those who may actually have a harder time that I.

It also doesn't surprise me that this subject matter is skewed and flawed as others have pointed out. BBC Three has terrible programmes like this all the time.
 
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I'm happy for that fella. I did good. but not because of his deformity, but because of who he is. I'm sure he's got many redeeming factors that make him a cool guy. It's a little close minded to think of his face being the only thing that affects his game. Just like any other man, it's the total package that matters.

Sure, you'll have some chicks that lean towards one of the angles more than others, but in the end it's not just one thing that gets chicks, it's many different things at work that make you attractive.
 
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