"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Any one who thinks that only a good looking guy can get a hot girl read this!

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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He doesn't look all that bad, seriously. Looks like he has all his sh!t together too. Also she may have issues herself, such as a need to nurture somebody injured or deformed and the guy reminds me of a sick puppy.
 
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The guy's got style and he's ripped. Looks like he made the best of a bad situation. Something to draw inspiration from.
 
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it's the tattoo's and the hair. i kid you not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you think for one second that Sean Stephenson guy gets laid you are living in a fantasy world. He's a marketer and uses his recognition and money to land women.

That other guys face is a little off, but as others have mentioned, he's got a good frame. I'd say 6 foot 200 lbs. People give one scenario and say "see, looks don't matter." It's very misleading. What almost all of them fail to take into account is that it's the exception, not the rule. For every "ugly" guy with a hot girl, I can name 10 good looking, fit guys with hot girls.
 
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Certainly he is an exception, but the ways he is presenting himself is very much something what a DJ would do, and he possibly has a ton of personality and character to boot, changing what he has control of.
 
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Without knowing the history of these two, I'd say he has other redeeming qualities that make up for his deformity (as others have mentioned).

Whatever situation you might be in, "confidence" will lay the ground work for you to make something of yourself. You can begin to build confidence by taking risks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Should getting laid be an ultimate life quest for a man? I seriously doubt I could get laid- I'm 24 and generally have an idea of how women see me. I pretty well tell when a woman is interested which is hardly ever, and I have come to accept that.

It is fair in this era I guess that a lot of guys shut themselves away and don't get out there because they assume that women only go for 'pretty boys', and predict rejection. I was like that also, feeling so hollow and empty and how life feels desolate where nothing happens. Being picked on in school and then getting dirty looks in college didn't help my outlook, and I started to think about those who may actually have a harder time that I.

It also doesn't surprise me that this subject matter is skewed and flawed as others have pointed out. BBC Three has terrible programmes like this all the time.
 
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I'm happy for that fella. I did good. but not because of his deformity, but because of who he is. I'm sure he's got many redeeming factors that make him a cool guy. It's a little close minded to think of his face being the only thing that affects his game. Just like any other man, it's the total package that matters.

Sure, you'll have some chicks that lean towards one of the angles more than others, but in the end it's not just one thing that gets chicks, it's many different things at work that make you attractive.
 
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