“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Any of you try to recover one after being AFC

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So I met this girl a while back and was severely AFC. I was texting a bunch etc. Since then, I've got some plates spinning, did a complete 180 and havent' had any contact with this girl in weeks and haven't seen her in probably a month. I was trying change while we were still engaging in conversations but it was more difficult when there are zero options, so I basically just blew it up. I k closed her and that's about it. Now that I have some options and have a much better feel of what I'm doing, is there any recovery here? Can I send a ping text or call her out of the blue or just let it go? It's almost as if I want to try to recover this one just to prove something to myself now and not because I'm hung up on it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Trying to prove something still comes from a place of neediness even if your intentions aren't to get her back - you are still trying to qualify. Do not fool yourself.


Wait til she reaches out to you or you run into her. Be the man and take it from there.

Seems like you are a rookie - I recommend the DJ bible and bouncing around this site to learn what governs attraction with women in the meantime.
 
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If you've got plates spinning then what is the point? She doesn't matter.
 
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Dgwizdal said:
Trying to prove something still comes from a place of neediness even if your intentions aren't to get her back - you are still trying to qualify. Do not fool yourself.


Wait til she reaches out to you or you run into her. Be the man and take it from there.

Seems like you are a rookie - I recommend the DJ bible and bouncing around this site to learn what governs attraction with women in the meantime.
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I get what you're saying about the intentions and I've been searching around here off and on. I'm super busy now and I think what killed me with this girl was the lack of options and I was on break so I had TONS of time on my hands.

Anyway, Ill just wait. Several weekends ago she texted me to ask what I was doing but I was passed out from a long day and didn't get back to her till late. She pulled the same thing on me the night after. It was stupid and incredibly telegraphed from her end. I didn't get back to her & haven't heard from her since so Ill just keep doing my new thing and get more options. Thanks man.
 
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