Trojan3000
Banned
- Joined
- Sep 8, 2020
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- 32
I used to have guys ask me for advice all the time, and want me to coach them and such. Went as far as to have guys mic'd up to see what their cold approach game was like and help them work on their skills, or in most cases, lack of. Though, I would end up coaching guys on all types of **** related to women.. Including alot of dudes coming to me asking about breakups. Where'd I find these dudes, besides the ones I met in real life situations? Online communities where people liked some of what I have to say. I mean, some of it was also SoSuave when I used to be on here back in the day. I changed a lot since then, as I was more in my prime back then. (had more of that cave man mindset)
Some funny things I recall from coaching dudes: This one guy asked me what he was doing wrong at the club.. Basically, he was playing /and fitting the provider role without knowing it. I tried to help him change that by starting with his look, i told him to tone it down, instead of wearing dressy outfits and suit jackets, told him try a black t shirt , some jeans, and some decent flats or boots, even walking shoes/sneakers if the venue permitted it. While doing this, I gave him an example of an outfit straight out my closet that I would wear on a night out. Next thing you know, the guy goes and buys the exact outfit online.. Literally searched for the shirt and pants online and bought the same exact shirt and shoes and found similar jeans. Was hilarious to me at the time.
The most capable I found were friends of friends I'd take out to the club or guys I met at bars/clubs that saw myself and my friend do our thing. Some of these guys would catch us on nights which I dub "Tazmanian Devil" nights.. These were admittedly some pretty bad nights, but to the outside perspective, it looked like we were pros at getting women. Why Tazmanian Devil? We'd go around the whole club, talking to literally all the hot girls, irregardless of the men with them, boyfriends, etc till something hit. Drink of choice, Redbull Vodka. Often times, we would get kicked out of places, but others not so much. Anyways, back to the point.. Dudes would come up to us and want to hang out the next time they'd see us and I'd end up coaching them or giving them pointers. Sometmes, even misleading them just to use them as test dummies for new methods and styles, which was amusing. Especially because there were days I'd just stand around enjoy the music, and yet analyze what other guys were doing. Alot of whom were older than me .. and if you been in that position, you know that you sometimes have to resist going in an stealing the catch because you see everything they're doing wrong and notice exactly how easy a specific target is.
All in all, I'd say I coached about 15-20 dudes, from offline and online. It would cringe me out just how bad these dudes were programmed. Had so many of the typical "But Coach <name of some PUA> said dont do that.. do this> " "But but, <website> said, do that, and no dont do this".. That's why I always tell guys stop reading bull**** and go out there and see what works for you instead of thinking what works for some flamboyant egghead or a scientific minded ****brain is automatically going to work for you. I mean I never liked the PUA style, or what PUA's were teaching, because I developed my game natural (another thing people used to call me, well the older heads, like my brother PlayerSupreme R.I.P)
I had to stop though because it was just humiliating to hear some of the stories and plus it became really time consuming. Now, I kinda just help out guys close to me. Though not much coaching anymore.. Just pointers, and telling them what I know about the mind of women in the club and different dynamics of nightlife.
What about you guys?
Some funny things I recall from coaching dudes: This one guy asked me what he was doing wrong at the club.. Basically, he was playing /and fitting the provider role without knowing it. I tried to help him change that by starting with his look, i told him to tone it down, instead of wearing dressy outfits and suit jackets, told him try a black t shirt , some jeans, and some decent flats or boots, even walking shoes/sneakers if the venue permitted it. While doing this, I gave him an example of an outfit straight out my closet that I would wear on a night out. Next thing you know, the guy goes and buys the exact outfit online.. Literally searched for the shirt and pants online and bought the same exact shirt and shoes and found similar jeans. Was hilarious to me at the time.
The most capable I found were friends of friends I'd take out to the club or guys I met at bars/clubs that saw myself and my friend do our thing. Some of these guys would catch us on nights which I dub "Tazmanian Devil" nights.. These were admittedly some pretty bad nights, but to the outside perspective, it looked like we were pros at getting women. Why Tazmanian Devil? We'd go around the whole club, talking to literally all the hot girls, irregardless of the men with them, boyfriends, etc till something hit. Drink of choice, Redbull Vodka. Often times, we would get kicked out of places, but others not so much. Anyways, back to the point.. Dudes would come up to us and want to hang out the next time they'd see us and I'd end up coaching them or giving them pointers. Sometmes, even misleading them just to use them as test dummies for new methods and styles, which was amusing. Especially because there were days I'd just stand around enjoy the music, and yet analyze what other guys were doing. Alot of whom were older than me .. and if you been in that position, you know that you sometimes have to resist going in an stealing the catch because you see everything they're doing wrong and notice exactly how easy a specific target is.
All in all, I'd say I coached about 15-20 dudes, from offline and online. It would cringe me out just how bad these dudes were programmed. Had so many of the typical "But Coach <name of some PUA> said dont do that.. do this> " "But but, <website> said, do that, and no dont do this".. That's why I always tell guys stop reading bull**** and go out there and see what works for you instead of thinking what works for some flamboyant egghead or a scientific minded ****brain is automatically going to work for you. I mean I never liked the PUA style, or what PUA's were teaching, because I developed my game natural (another thing people used to call me, well the older heads, like my brother PlayerSupreme R.I.P)
I had to stop though because it was just humiliating to hear some of the stories and plus it became really time consuming. Now, I kinda just help out guys close to me. Though not much coaching anymore.. Just pointers, and telling them what I know about the mind of women in the club and different dynamics of nightlife.
What about you guys?