lavalamp69
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So how good is it for meeting women?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
lavalamp69 said:So how good is it for meeting women?
Spot on, especially the part in bold. It is true. The "normal" 1% get scared off the site almost immediately with sex propositions and c0ck pics. 100% truth.Naughty Ninja said:If you look good enough in your most attractive pictures, have a brief profile, and a good spam opener it's easy as hell to get loads of numbers and meets.
99% of those chicks are pump and dump material only. Way too much issues, baggage etc. Any 1% chick who entertains the idea signs up and drops off almost as soon as she joins and never goes back to that site.
If you're going online to "wife shop" for a woman you'll find yourself ending up in a "Whoa-man!" situation. You've been warned.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TillTheEndOfTime said:Spot on, especially the part in bold. It is true. The "normal" 1% get scared off the site almost immediately with sex propositions and c0ck pics. 100% truth.
Don't expect to meet anything other than single mothers, divorcees, AW's, mentally/emotionally unstable women, uneducated women, deadbeats, etc.
I am looking strictly for a gf. Everything you said is exactly why I don't do the online thing anymore. Here are the last two girls I met and what was wrong with them (these are probably the most normal girls that I have ever met online):Naughty Ninja said:Exactly. You can look in ANY state, and country on there. US, Canada, or the UK. (I've spammed that site to hell when I was on there and seen many, many profiles, talked with countless chicks there). Almost every chick is posing either half nude, has Tattoo's and or multiple piercings all over themselves, has kids, is an AW, the towns cvm dumpster, is an emotional/mental wreck, and on and on and on.
I've talked with soo many on there it's insane. Chicks with court cases (for violence), PREGNANT (No joke) WTF?!, bi sexual, married, engaged, boyfriend, fresh out of a damaging relationship (and most likely still seeing the other person) all races sloring around, yet dudes actually entertain the idea of wifing these chicks up off of desperation, h0rniness for a steady "girlfriend", and or fall in love over a chicks "pretty pictures" and OBVIOUS profile fluff filler.
The site is ONLY good to meet chicks, get used to seeing how fvcked up they are online and learning to spot red flags in real life to avoid and just BSing with different ones, meeting and fvcking.
I'm not coming off in the LEAST as "bitter" or a woman hater. It's just I know for a fact beyond the shadow of a doubt that POF is a magnet for the types of chicks that infest that site and make it a complete cesspool for a dude who's seriously looking to find a good person.
You simply CANNOT ever take anyone or anything on that site to heart or you'll find yourself going insane and becoming worse off when trying to interact with real life chicks and ending up classifying them all as the types you'll deal with on POF.
If anyone else decides to use that site. Use it to amuse yourself and interact with those chicks to learn what and who to avoid at all costs in real life, pump and dump ONLY. (Most of those chicks are all going for the pump and dumps themselves while getting an ego boost and ARE looking for a "relationship" with a "God" who's dumb enough to wife them up so they can live vicariously through him and "impress" their friends, and or make their friends and ex(s) "jealous".
If you're looking for a decent person on that site. Good friggin luck with that.
TillTheEndOfTime said:I am looking strictly for a gf. Everything you said is exactly why I don't do the online thing anymore. Here are the last two girls I met and what was wrong with them (these are probably the most normal girls that I have ever met online):
Girl #1: Girl's original parents divorced. Her father was abusive and beat her mother. He's in jail. Her mother is illiterate. The girl only has a high school education.
Girl #2: Girl's father doesn't even have a high school education. Her mother works at a grocery store. She is the first in her family to even go to college. She is sheltered beyond belief. She grew up in a small town and is pretty much poor.
That's the pick of the litter online folks! Enjoy! :crackup:
Is this a trick question?lavalamp69 said:So how good is it for meeting women?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=199203lavalamp69 said:So how good is it for meeting women?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.