lavalamp69
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So how good is it for meeting women?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lavalamp69 said:So how good is it for meeting women?
Spot on, especially the part in bold. It is true. The "normal" 1% get scared off the site almost immediately with sex propositions and c0ck pics. 100% truth.Naughty Ninja said:If you look good enough in your most attractive pictures, have a brief profile, and a good spam opener it's easy as hell to get loads of numbers and meets.
99% of those chicks are pump and dump material only. Way too much issues, baggage etc. Any 1% chick who entertains the idea signs up and drops off almost as soon as she joins and never goes back to that site.
If you're going online to "wife shop" for a woman you'll find yourself ending up in a "Whoa-man!" situation. You've been warned.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
TillTheEndOfTime said:Spot on, especially the part in bold. It is true. The "normal" 1% get scared off the site almost immediately with sex propositions and c0ck pics. 100% truth.
Don't expect to meet anything other than single mothers, divorcees, AW's, mentally/emotionally unstable women, uneducated women, deadbeats, etc.
I am looking strictly for a gf. Everything you said is exactly why I don't do the online thing anymore. Here are the last two girls I met and what was wrong with them (these are probably the most normal girls that I have ever met online):Naughty Ninja said:Exactly. You can look in ANY state, and country on there. US, Canada, or the UK. (I've spammed that site to hell when I was on there and seen many, many profiles, talked with countless chicks there). Almost every chick is posing either half nude, has Tattoo's and or multiple piercings all over themselves, has kids, is an AW, the towns cvm dumpster, is an emotional/mental wreck, and on and on and on.
I've talked with soo many on there it's insane. Chicks with court cases (for violence), PREGNANT (No joke) WTF?!, bi sexual, married, engaged, boyfriend, fresh out of a damaging relationship (and most likely still seeing the other person) all races sloring around, yet dudes actually entertain the idea of wifing these chicks up off of desperation, h0rniness for a steady "girlfriend", and or fall in love over a chicks "pretty pictures" and OBVIOUS profile fluff filler.
The site is ONLY good to meet chicks, get used to seeing how fvcked up they are online and learning to spot red flags in real life to avoid and just BSing with different ones, meeting and fvcking.
I'm not coming off in the LEAST as "bitter" or a woman hater. It's just I know for a fact beyond the shadow of a doubt that POF is a magnet for the types of chicks that infest that site and make it a complete cesspool for a dude who's seriously looking to find a good person.
You simply CANNOT ever take anyone or anything on that site to heart or you'll find yourself going insane and becoming worse off when trying to interact with real life chicks and ending up classifying them all as the types you'll deal with on POF.
If anyone else decides to use that site. Use it to amuse yourself and interact with those chicks to learn what and who to avoid at all costs in real life, pump and dump ONLY. (Most of those chicks are all going for the pump and dumps themselves while getting an ego boost and ARE looking for a "relationship" with a "God" who's dumb enough to wife them up so they can live vicariously through him and "impress" their friends, and or make their friends and ex(s) "jealous".
If you're looking for a decent person on that site. Good friggin luck with that.
TillTheEndOfTime said:I am looking strictly for a gf. Everything you said is exactly why I don't do the online thing anymore. Here are the last two girls I met and what was wrong with them (these are probably the most normal girls that I have ever met online):
Girl #1: Girl's original parents divorced. Her father was abusive and beat her mother. He's in jail. Her mother is illiterate. The girl only has a high school education.
Girl #2: Girl's father doesn't even have a high school education. Her mother works at a grocery store. She is the first in her family to even go to college. She is sheltered beyond belief. She grew up in a small town and is pretty much poor.
That's the pick of the litter online folks! Enjoy! :crackup:
Is this a trick question?lavalamp69 said:So how good is it for meeting women?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=199203lavalamp69 said:So how good is it for meeting women?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.