Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Any leadership book to recommend?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Nygard
Senior Don Juan
Ease yourself gradually into such situations and you will develop the nesessary skills.No book needed.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
Never Eat Alone: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time
The 48 laws of power is a good book, tho often kinda hard to 'implement' the laws into your life
Make sure you understand the difference between leadership and management
Leadership can’t really be "taught" - it’s more part of your personality/attitude that you can develop with experience and time...
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
http://webcache.googleusercontent.c...ns&cd=12&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us&client=firefox-a
QUALITIES AND CHARACTERISTICS OF A SUCCESSFUL LEADER
1. Leads by example; always cares for his/her soldiers.
2. Is self-confident and takes charge while utilizing and developing subordinates.
3. Understands and lives by Army Values and the Warrior Ethos.
4. Is physically, morally, mentally, and spiritually fit.
5. Has common sense - effectively manages resources (time, personnel, equipment, etc.).
6. Takes initiative while fostering teamwork and enhancing individual and organizational growth.
The sixteen leadership dimensions are defined as:
a. MENTAL (ME) Possesses desire, will, initiative and discipline.
b. PHYSICAL (PH) Maintains appropriate level of physical fitness and military bearing.
c. EMOTIONAL (EM) Displays self-control; calm under pressure.
d. CONCEPTUAL (CN) Demonstrates sound judgment, critical/creative thinking, moral reasoning.
e. INTERPERSONAL (IP) Shows skill with people; coaching, teaching, counseling, motivating and empowering.
f. TECHNICAL (TE) Possesses the necessary expertise to accomplish all tasks and functions.
g. TACTICAL (TA) Demonstrates proficiency in required professional knowledge, judgment, and war-fighting.
h. COMMUNICATING (CO) Displays good oral, written, and listening skills for individual/groups.
i. DECISION-MAKING (DM) Employs sound judgment, logical reasoning, and uses resources wisely.
j. MOTIVATING (MO) Inspires, motivates, and guides others toward mission accomplishment.
k. PLANNING (PL) Develops detailed, executable plans that are feasible, acceptable, and suitable.
l. EXECUTING (EX) Shows tactical proficiency, meets mission standards, and takes care of people/resources.
m. ASSESSING (AS) Uses after-action and evaluation tools to facilitate consistent improvement.
n. DEVELOPING (DE) Invests adequate time and effort to develop individual subordinates as leaders.
o. BUILDING (BD) Spends time and resources improving teams, groups, and units; fosters ethical climate.
p. LEARNING (LR) Seeks self-improvement and organizational growth; envisioning, adapting and leading.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.