Right here we go.. i was in a club on friday when i got to meet a woman n we were talking and even some slow dancing... but no kissing (yet anyway!!!!!). we exchanged numbers and she even made contact that nite/morning (3am) (it was my birthday). She has said she would love to meet up and suggested drinks or movie... no i know that it is a good start but i was just wondering whether i should 1. suggest other ideas and 2. if she is truly interested. I am still fresh with this skilled DJing business so any expert advice is welcome........
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
perhaps you can agree with the suggestion for drinks and you suggest the place you go to, prefably some place you're comfortable and familiar with. a nice cosy place.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Of course she is interested - she took the initiative and she is the woman!!
You decide what and when and where - don't do a movie!!!
You decide what and when and where - don't do a movie!!!
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I kinda thought drinks and bowling (cos its fun, n if u get stuck for conversation then there is always something to do).
I called her last nite n had to leave a message on her answering machine.... she aint got back 2 me yet so i am waiting 2 her back from her. If she doesnt call me should i call her again, if so when?? i was thinkin thursday night
I called her last nite n had to leave a message on her answering machine.... she aint got back 2 me yet so i am waiting 2 her back from her. If she doesnt call me should i call her again, if so when?? i was thinkin thursday night
Hmm, if you left a message obviously she knows you called, if she's interested she will return the call. Granted it is possible for her to forget, but if she hasn't called within a a few days she most likely won't be. You could wait and try again in about 4-5 days, and if she still doesn't return your call I'd wait and let her make the next move. She's got your number, if she's interested she'll be thinking of you and will call. Oh, and bowling is something different, good idea.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
dont call back. yup.. if she's interested she'll call. if not just forget about it, her interest level in you probably isn't very high! do update to tell us if she did contact you back. bowling is a great idea. good chance for kinoing if she sucks at it. you know. show her how to handle the ball? yeah. you get the picture.