"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Any idea's for a reply to this message? v.Iwannabangher

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So I got 'SpySpace' and this girl checked me out who lives near me.

In her profile it says something about her liking Earl Grey. So I messaged her:

"Lapsang Souchong > Earl Grey"

She replied:

"Gasp! Are you challenging me to a tea duel young man?"

I replied:

"You'd better put the kettle on..."

She replied:

"Let's call it a draw, I'll make you a Lapsang Souchong, you make me an Earl Grey and we'll agree to disagree?"

This chick is a really switched on intelligent girl who's into the arts etc...but she's hot...and I would like to bang her.

I'll post pics in return for a smart reply that will set something up, but preferably using ****y and funny!

Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SpySpace? hah....never knew about that. Installling......NOW. crap..its down for a few days it says...
 
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Yea it's pretty cool. Registration went down a few days ago, came back up...and now it's back down I see. I swapped an OiNK invite for a SpySpace invite ;)

Anyway, what about that reply...:up:
 
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try something like

"i'd rather you agree to a date this weekend. bring your tea!"

then u can set it up in the messages to follow.
 
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"A draw? How bitter, let's steep together instead"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let me give you more of an idea of the type of girl she is...

"I'm an old fashioned little lady that goes by the name of Joby. I chain-smoke cigars, swear like a sailor and drink Earl Grey like it's going out of fashion. I wear my heart on my sleeve and say what I think without thinking before I say it. My favourite actors, singers and footballers are all dead, and for that reason I will probably be the first person to successfully invent a time machine. When If I grow up I want to join the circus or be a sleazy blues singer, but for now I'm happy to waste my time studying Literature and daydreaming about dancing the Argentine Tango with Rudolph Valentino."

Bearing this in mind, I don't want to be too full on so:

"A draw? How bitter, let's sleep together instead"

...is out of the question.

So, something witty? Something C+F?...and something a bit more subtle for now.
 
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I said steep you creep!

"I'll take you up on the tea party" Than throw in something personal about yourself, and throw in where you would like to meet her.
 
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Wow...this girl sounds very...cool. Intelligent, witty, and mature.

Getter man.

Oh, and post pics.
 
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A draw? How bitter, let's steep together instead
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Sorry man, thought it was a typo...:eek: I get it now...:D

Ok pics...




These are great replies, keep 'em coming !
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not bad at all. She looks like some kinda japanese kimono wearing daughter of a samurai lord...becareful of ninjas on your date.

:crackup:
 
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Yea lol...I will. :woo:
 
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