elton
Don Juan
i swear girls that call me a "loser" has interest in me. anyone else know what im talking about?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
any girls call you a "loser" ??
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
elton
Don Juan
hahah no im saying like say u make fun of them then they hit you and call you loser.
or in text messeges, myspace etc. ex. "hey loser" "your such a loser!"
or in text messeges, myspace etc. ex. "hey loser" "your such a loser!"
Its just a way for them to get your attention. Don't mind it,its just being playful. I get it often from chicks I work on.
I will get a text saying "Hey dork" or "Hi loser". I respond with "Quit looking in the mirror".
I will get a text saying "Hey dork" or "Hi loser". I respond with "Quit looking in the mirror".
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
any girl that calls you a loser and means it, isn't worth dating, even if you are a loser
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ace of Flames
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Haha omg dude, I just talked to my girl about this.
This was the convo:
Me- *something funny, probably teasing her*
Her- *giggle* Loser!
Me- You know what?
Her- What?
Me- Everytime you call me 'loser', in my head, I always switch the s with a v.
Her- *pause* ...Really??
Me- Mm hmm. Girls always say one thing and mean another, so I'm just switching what you say, with what I think you mean.
Her- *Awww*
Me- So, wanna be my loser? S = V
Her- Hehe, sure.
Me- *smile* I knew you'd say yes.
Her- Of course.
Oh yea.
This was the convo:
Me- *something funny, probably teasing her*
Her- *giggle* Loser!
Me- You know what?
Her- What?
Me- Everytime you call me 'loser', in my head, I always switch the s with a v.
Her- *pause* ...Really??
Me- Mm hmm. Girls always say one thing and mean another, so I'm just switching what you say, with what I think you mean.
Her- *Awww*
Me- So, wanna be my loser? S = V
Her- Hehe, sure.
Me- *smile* I knew you'd say yes.
Her- Of course.
Oh yea.
So are you actually a loser?
Jk, dude it depends on your frame of mind: If she says 'loser' in whatever context, and you actually think you're a loser, you'll probably react to it and get pissed.
If she says 'loser' and you reframe it (eg So do you always say that to guys you're attracted to?) or something like that, you win.
Like Rick H. says, "always have a better answer."
Jk, dude it depends on your frame of mind: If she says 'loser' in whatever context, and you actually think you're a loser, you'll probably react to it and get pissed.
If she says 'loser' and you reframe it (eg So do you always say that to guys you're attracted to?) or something like that, you win.
Like Rick H. says, "always have a better answer."
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
montybrown
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Girls never called me a loser, but I've had a few call me a dork, but I've learned it's a way of flirting because all the ones that call me that I find out they have a crush on me.