elton
Don Juan
i swear girls that call me a "loser" has interest in me. anyone else know what im talking about?
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any girls call you a "loser" ??
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elton
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hahah no im saying like say u make fun of them then they hit you and call you loser.
or in text messeges, myspace etc. ex. "hey loser" "your such a loser!"
or in text messeges, myspace etc. ex. "hey loser" "your such a loser!"
Its just a way for them to get your attention. Don't mind it,its just being playful. I get it often from chicks I work on.
I will get a text saying "Hey dork" or "Hi loser". I respond with "Quit looking in the mirror".
I will get a text saying "Hey dork" or "Hi loser". I respond with "Quit looking in the mirror".
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
any girl that calls you a loser and means it, isn't worth dating, even if you are a loser
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Haha omg dude, I just talked to my girl about this.
This was the convo:
Me- *something funny, probably teasing her*
Her- *giggle* Loser!
Me- You know what?
Her- What?
Me- Everytime you call me 'loser', in my head, I always switch the s with a v.
Her- *pause* ...Really??
Me- Mm hmm. Girls always say one thing and mean another, so I'm just switching what you say, with what I think you mean.
Her- *Awww*
Me- So, wanna be my loser? S = V
Her- Hehe, sure.
Me- *smile* I knew you'd say yes.
Her- Of course.
Oh yea.
This was the convo:
Me- *something funny, probably teasing her*
Her- *giggle* Loser!
Me- You know what?
Her- What?
Me- Everytime you call me 'loser', in my head, I always switch the s with a v.
Her- *pause* ...Really??
Me- Mm hmm. Girls always say one thing and mean another, so I'm just switching what you say, with what I think you mean.
Her- *Awww*
Me- So, wanna be my loser? S = V
Her- Hehe, sure.
Me- *smile* I knew you'd say yes.
Her- Of course.
Oh yea.
So are you actually a loser?
Jk, dude it depends on your frame of mind: If she says 'loser' in whatever context, and you actually think you're a loser, you'll probably react to it and get pissed.
If she says 'loser' and you reframe it (eg So do you always say that to guys you're attracted to?) or something like that, you win.
Like Rick H. says, "always have a better answer."
Jk, dude it depends on your frame of mind: If she says 'loser' in whatever context, and you actually think you're a loser, you'll probably react to it and get pissed.
If she says 'loser' and you reframe it (eg So do you always say that to guys you're attracted to?) or something like that, you win.
Like Rick H. says, "always have a better answer."
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Girls never called me a loser, but I've had a few call me a dork, but I've learned it's a way of flirting because all the ones that call me that I find out they have a crush on me.