any girls call you a "loser" ??

blinkwatt

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Its just a way for them to get your attention. Don't mind it,its just being playful. I get it often from chicks I work on.

I will get a text saying "Hey dork" or "Hi loser". I respond with "Quit looking in the mirror".
 

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any girl that calls you a loser and means it, isn't worth dating, even if you are a loser
 

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Haha omg dude, I just talked to my girl about this.

This was the convo:

Me- *something funny, probably teasing her*
Her- *giggle* Loser!
Me- You know what?
Her- What?
Me- Everytime you call me 'loser', in my head, I always switch the s with a v.
Her- *pause* ...Really??
Me- Mm hmm. Girls always say one thing and mean another, so I'm just switching what you say, with what I think you mean.
Her- *Awww*
Me- So, wanna be my loser? S = V
Her- Hehe, sure.
Me- *smile* I knew you'd say yes.
Her- Of course.


Oh yea.
 

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So are you actually a loser?

Jk, dude it depends on your frame of mind: If she says 'loser' in whatever context, and you actually think you're a loser, you'll probably react to it and get pissed.

If she says 'loser' and you reframe it (eg So do you always say that to guys you're attracted to?) or something like that, you win.

Like Rick H. says, "always have a better answer."
 

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uhh honestly are you new to having female friends because every girl or at ;east most have always used jokingly calling me a loser on me alot..im guesing you are very young andhavnt been with so many women?
 

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Girls never called me a loser, but I've had a few call me a dork, but I've learned it's a way of flirting because all the ones that call me that I find out they have a crush on me.
 
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