elton
Don Juan
i swear girls that call me a "loser" has interest in me. anyone else know what im talking about?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
any girls call you a "loser" ??
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
elton
Don Juan
hahah no im saying like say u make fun of them then they hit you and call you loser.
or in text messeges, myspace etc. ex. "hey loser" "your such a loser!"
or in text messeges, myspace etc. ex. "hey loser" "your such a loser!"
Its just a way for them to get your attention. Don't mind it,its just being playful. I get it often from chicks I work on.
I will get a text saying "Hey dork" or "Hi loser". I respond with "Quit looking in the mirror".
I will get a text saying "Hey dork" or "Hi loser". I respond with "Quit looking in the mirror".
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
any girl that calls you a loser and means it, isn't worth dating, even if you are a loser
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Haha omg dude, I just talked to my girl about this.
This was the convo:
Me- *something funny, probably teasing her*
Her- *giggle* Loser!
Me- You know what?
Her- What?
Me- Everytime you call me 'loser', in my head, I always switch the s with a v.
Her- *pause* ...Really??
Me- Mm hmm. Girls always say one thing and mean another, so I'm just switching what you say, with what I think you mean.
Her- *Awww*
Me- So, wanna be my loser? S = V
Her- Hehe, sure.
Me- *smile* I knew you'd say yes.
Her- Of course.
Oh yea.
This was the convo:
Me- *something funny, probably teasing her*
Her- *giggle* Loser!
Me- You know what?
Her- What?
Me- Everytime you call me 'loser', in my head, I always switch the s with a v.
Her- *pause* ...Really??
Me- Mm hmm. Girls always say one thing and mean another, so I'm just switching what you say, with what I think you mean.
Her- *Awww*
Me- So, wanna be my loser? S = V
Her- Hehe, sure.
Me- *smile* I knew you'd say yes.
Her- Of course.
Oh yea.
So are you actually a loser?
Jk, dude it depends on your frame of mind: If she says 'loser' in whatever context, and you actually think you're a loser, you'll probably react to it and get pissed.
If she says 'loser' and you reframe it (eg So do you always say that to guys you're attracted to?) or something like that, you win.
Like Rick H. says, "always have a better answer."
Jk, dude it depends on your frame of mind: If she says 'loser' in whatever context, and you actually think you're a loser, you'll probably react to it and get pissed.
If she says 'loser' and you reframe it (eg So do you always say that to guys you're attracted to?) or something like that, you win.
Like Rick H. says, "always have a better answer."
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Girls never called me a loser, but I've had a few call me a dork, but I've learned it's a way of flirting because all the ones that call me that I find out they have a crush on me.