"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Any girl been freaked out by kino?

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Have any of you guys tried kino but the girl gets all freaked out?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wiesman44

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Kino is not meant to freak out. All it is is touching. Now if you did ass kino from the dj bible, i can see how she could get freaked out. I've never had a girl get freaked out b/c I dont use too much of it around a girl. I use just enough to be able to tease her, and have her notice I am touching her.
 

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If a girl isnt interested, she isnt gonna let her touch you, or even let you get close to her...She probably wasnt interested...
 

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i didnt say i did it. i never really used it so i just wanna make sure
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hahah, yea. I was having a tequila drinking night at my friend's house. We invited a girl over, but she didn't drink. I was planning on hitting in with the girl but i didn't have much courage. I was sitting on the couch right next to her. And as i was getting drunker I decided to move closer to her. I sat so close that our azzes touched. She moved away with a kneejerk reaction. Then I decided to put my hand around her. She kind of leaned away when she saw it coming. After a couple of more shots of tequila and bottles of beer I went to puke in the bathroom. After my quick recovery I went back and repeatedly tried that sitting and hand routine. Not sure if that was kino in the definition but it was sure awkward.
 

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I have been labled 'touchy feely'

lesson learned here- dont use it to little, but dont use it too much
 

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i don't do kino. i do however "invade her space" - I progressively keep standing physically close to her or bumping into her. eventually holding her hand and etc will come naturally. a girl that is not interested will show "uncomfortable" body language.
 
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Originally posted by i am me
Have any of you guys tried kino but the girl gets all freaked out?
ive done kino and the girl is totall non- responsive, and hell i know it wasnt bad cause i did the same **** to the other chicks and they all liked it.
 

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Yeah, i think everyones had some bad kino experiences.

I've also been described as 'touchy feely'. One time a girl i've talked to once or twice saw me in a bar, we got chatting (i'd had a bit to drink) & i pointed something out to her across the room, & as i did so, i put my arm a round her. This just came naturally & no concious thought was involved at all.
she gave a shocked & suprised & slightly anoyed / disapointed in me look, & politly made excuses & left quickly.

I've had a few similar things happen. But, it's anoying. Ethier girls think i kino too much (even if it's just my inate reaction, & it's VERY light stuff), or other girls are obviously disapionted that i'm not doing it enough & have to lead in terms of kino progression.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sumtimes the chick can jus be a tease, i say go get other chicks, when she sees this shell realize maybe being a tease wont get u any closer.
 

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I've had a bad one here and there

It comes with learning on how to handle kino in the right times.

Crossposted from archieve

Lastly (these are the types of memories I almost cry over), same girl before finding this site I tried this when I asked her out. I touched her leg and she gave me all sort of red flags. It was like flag day in China. I thought she said yes when in fact she said no (Something I did not plan on. Wishful thinking I guess. Ego? Most likely "Lust") I was in a euphoric state for that entire weekend. "Happiest time in my life" Was what I was saying to myself. Hell I had an LTR planned out in my head. On a monday, I went and talked to her and she was surrounded by her possy of friends. She got her b!tchiest friend to tell me "where do you think Tina is going out with you"
"She told me on Friday"
Well your lying because she would never go out with you and that she was not going out with me. Think you got that"
This is where I should have saved some face by saying "yeah I got that your a fat b!tch. Try and lose some fvcken weight, drugbag."
I walked away from there and went to my table. Put my head down and started crying (last time I did cry), thinking of suicide, pushing my friends away, etc.
Tuesday, I apologized for asking her out I then just tried to touch her again. And she backs away, turns around, and walks away. then that night I wrote a poem for her that night but never gave it to her. Thank God.

That about does my experiences if I think of anymore I will write them down.
 
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