"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Any experience with baseball game dates

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Baseball games lend themselves well to easy flowing conversation. You don't have to pay close attention to the game to know what is going on, and most parks have cool places to walk around and talk. You can easily have her take your arm or initiate kino while sitting side by side. Where it can fall out of bed is the Food , Drinks and Souvenirs. Usually my agreement when I go with a woman was one of us buys the food, one buys the drinks. You are looking at $25 each. Souvenirs is for kids or LTR partners, not dates. If you wanna get cheap, tailgate in the parking lot. Anyone with Season tickets knows how expensive it is to buy anything at the ballpark so don't feel like you gotta keep up with the Joneses.



 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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