"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any experience with baseball game dates

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Baseball games lend themselves well to easy flowing conversation. You don't have to pay close attention to the game to know what is going on, and most parks have cool places to walk around and talk. You can easily have her take your arm or initiate kino while sitting side by side. Where it can fall out of bed is the Food , Drinks and Souvenirs. Usually my agreement when I go with a woman was one of us buys the food, one buys the drinks. You are looking at $25 each. Souvenirs is for kids or LTR partners, not dates. If you wanna get cheap, tailgate in the parking lot. Anyone with Season tickets knows how expensive it is to buy anything at the ballpark so don't feel like you gotta keep up with the Joneses.



 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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