"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey for the past few weeks i've been struggling of how to be ****y and funny when talking to girl.pliz any hints,advice or tips of how to do this thanx.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Personally, I don't like C+F that much.
However, starting points you may want to explore.

Her:
Appearance.
Choice of music.
Drinking, eating choices.
Boyfriend types.
Manners, or lack thereof.
Opinions of daily events.


Let's start with appearance.
Look at her shoes.
"Wow, woman. You've got great feet and legs! But those old lady shoes you're wearing look like my Grandma's! Do you always wear those shoes? Who convinced you to wear that?! I know you want to show me off to your friends, but not with those old lady shoes!"
These are "Neg" hits, but still silly and humorous.
This is just a basic example of Negging using the C+F.
 

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Try to concentrate on the funny part of it more than the ****y part of it... it should be spelled c&F (little c big F). also, c&f will only get you so far... you also need to build rapport with the girl or you might make her attracted, but it won't last.

Ex :
You : Did you just grab my a$$??
her : NO??
you : Why not?
 
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