"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey for the past few weeks i've been struggling of how to be ****y and funny when talking to girl.pliz any hints,advice or tips of how to do this thanx.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Personally, I don't like C+F that much.
However, starting points you may want to explore.

Her:
Appearance.
Choice of music.
Drinking, eating choices.
Boyfriend types.
Manners, or lack thereof.
Opinions of daily events.


Let's start with appearance.
Look at her shoes.
"Wow, woman. You've got great feet and legs! But those old lady shoes you're wearing look like my Grandma's! Do you always wear those shoes? Who convinced you to wear that?! I know you want to show me off to your friends, but not with those old lady shoes!"
These are "Neg" hits, but still silly and humorous.
This is just a basic example of Negging using the C+F.
 
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Try to concentrate on the funny part of it more than the ****y part of it... it should be spelled c&F (little c big F). also, c&f will only get you so far... you also need to build rapport with the girl or you might make her attracted, but it won't last.

Ex :
You : Did you just grab my a$$??
her : NO??
you : Why not?
 
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