"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey for the past few weeks i've been struggling of how to be ****y and funny when talking to girl.pliz any hints,advice or tips of how to do this thanx.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Personally, I don't like C+F that much.
However, starting points you may want to explore.

Her:
Appearance.
Choice of music.
Drinking, eating choices.
Boyfriend types.
Manners, or lack thereof.
Opinions of daily events.


Let's start with appearance.
Look at her shoes.
"Wow, woman. You've got great feet and legs! But those old lady shoes you're wearing look like my Grandma's! Do you always wear those shoes? Who convinced you to wear that?! I know you want to show me off to your friends, but not with those old lady shoes!"
These are "Neg" hits, but still silly and humorous.
This is just a basic example of Negging using the C+F.
 
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Try to concentrate on the funny part of it more than the ****y part of it... it should be spelled c&F (little c big F). also, c&f will only get you so far... you also need to build rapport with the girl or you might make her attracted, but it won't last.

Ex :
You : Did you just grab my a$$??
her : NO??
you : Why not?
 
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