Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Any Don Juan Valetine traditions?

blinkwatt

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Do any of you have any DJ Valentine traditions/rituals you do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is my first Valentine as a knowing DJ seeing as I only stared looking at this site in November.

However I will DEFO be out on the town sarging all the lonely girls looking for a valentine. It should be like shooting a fish in a barrel. I suggest everyone else does the same thing. It will be one of the best days to go out and pull.
 

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hmm.... Valentines day.... yummyyyyyyyy!! :p~

I don’t.... I see Valentines day as a normal day, just that this day gives me a reason to do something with a chick... For me Valentines day is a chilled romantic day where I will spend it with a chick that I choose. Chicks are out there looking for that romance on this day more than most other days, so take advantage of it, and just find yourself a chick and simply enjoy yourself with her.

Something I like doing is picking her up, going for lunch or something with her, then find something to do together, maybe go see a movie, or go to some Valentines day get2gether somewhere, then taking a girl to a beach and walking with her there while other couples are also walking on the beach.... then maybe have a little picnic on the beach and just cuddle and talk and have a few drinks and watch the sunset, etc... That can be followed by inviting some friends over (maybe 4 other couples) and just chilling, make a fire, chill with music by the pool, have a few more drinks, and yeah.... that’s pretty much a nice Valentines day for me. And maybe later on if we're in the mood we can go to some club or something where there is a Valentines day party going on or something like that. Otherwise after we are done with socializing and are at home alone we can end the day off with some massaging, and pleasuring each other:D

Hope I gave u an idea or two;)


Laterz...
 

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hmm...

Originally posted by Tomatoes
This is my first Valentine as a knowing DJ seeing as I only stared looking at this site in November.

However I will DEFO be out on the town sarging all the lonely girls looking for a valentine. It should be like shooting a fish in a barrel. I suggest everyone else does the same thing. It will be one of the best days to go out and pull.
I generaly prefer to have a chick BEFORE the day, so that on the day you can be romantic with her and KNOW her already, and you cant really do that with a chick you only met 5 minutes ago :rolleyes: .... But each to his own i guess, I'm just a romantic type of person;)


Laterz....
 

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Re: hmm...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I generaly prefer to have a chick BEFORE the day, so that on the day you can be romantic with her and KNOW her already, and you cant really do that with a chick you only met 5 minutes ago :rolleyes: .... But each to his own i guess, I'm just a romantic type of person;)


Laterz....

Not a love at first sight romantic then? (I dont belive in love at first sight)

However I will use V day as a day to get a load of numbers...(Remember...its just a normal day.)

Then i will have the romantic stuff on days to follow....when the resturant prices are back to normal and **** ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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