"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Any Don Juan Valetine traditions?

blinkwatt

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Do any of you have any DJ Valentine traditions/rituals you do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is my first Valentine as a knowing DJ seeing as I only stared looking at this site in November.

However I will DEFO be out on the town sarging all the lonely girls looking for a valentine. It should be like shooting a fish in a barrel. I suggest everyone else does the same thing. It will be one of the best days to go out and pull.
 

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hmm.... Valentines day.... yummyyyyyyyy!! :p~

I don’t.... I see Valentines day as a normal day, just that this day gives me a reason to do something with a chick... For me Valentines day is a chilled romantic day where I will spend it with a chick that I choose. Chicks are out there looking for that romance on this day more than most other days, so take advantage of it, and just find yourself a chick and simply enjoy yourself with her.

Something I like doing is picking her up, going for lunch or something with her, then find something to do together, maybe go see a movie, or go to some Valentines day get2gether somewhere, then taking a girl to a beach and walking with her there while other couples are also walking on the beach.... then maybe have a little picnic on the beach and just cuddle and talk and have a few drinks and watch the sunset, etc... That can be followed by inviting some friends over (maybe 4 other couples) and just chilling, make a fire, chill with music by the pool, have a few more drinks, and yeah.... that’s pretty much a nice Valentines day for me. And maybe later on if we're in the mood we can go to some club or something where there is a Valentines day party going on or something like that. Otherwise after we are done with socializing and are at home alone we can end the day off with some massaging, and pleasuring each other:D

Hope I gave u an idea or two;)


Laterz...
 

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hmm...

Originally posted by Tomatoes
This is my first Valentine as a knowing DJ seeing as I only stared looking at this site in November.

However I will DEFO be out on the town sarging all the lonely girls looking for a valentine. It should be like shooting a fish in a barrel. I suggest everyone else does the same thing. It will be one of the best days to go out and pull.
I generaly prefer to have a chick BEFORE the day, so that on the day you can be romantic with her and KNOW her already, and you cant really do that with a chick you only met 5 minutes ago :rolleyes: .... But each to his own i guess, I'm just a romantic type of person;)


Laterz....
 

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Re: hmm...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I generaly prefer to have a chick BEFORE the day, so that on the day you can be romantic with her and KNOW her already, and you cant really do that with a chick you only met 5 minutes ago :rolleyes: .... But each to his own i guess, I'm just a romantic type of person;)


Laterz....

Not a love at first sight romantic then? (I dont belive in love at first sight)

However I will use V day as a day to get a load of numbers...(Remember...its just a normal day.)

Then i will have the romantic stuff on days to follow....when the resturant prices are back to normal and **** ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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