"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Any Don Juan Valetine traditions?
- Thread starter blinkwatt
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
However I will DEFO be out on the town sarging all the lonely girls looking for a valentine. It should be like shooting a fish in a barrel. I suggest everyone else does the same thing. It will be one of the best days to go out and pull.
~I don’t.... I see Valentines day as a normal day, just that this day gives me a reason to do something with a chick... For me Valentines day is a chilled romantic day where I will spend it with a chick that I choose. Chicks are out there looking for that romance on this day more than most other days, so take advantage of it, and just find yourself a chick and simply enjoy yourself with her.
Something I like doing is picking her up, going for lunch or something with her, then find something to do together, maybe go see a movie, or go to some Valentines day get2gether somewhere, then taking a girl to a beach and walking with her there while other couples are also walking on the beach.... then maybe have a little picnic on the beach and just cuddle and talk and have a few drinks and watch the sunset, etc... That can be followed by inviting some friends over (maybe 4 other couples) and just chilling, make a fire, chill with music by the pool, have a few more drinks, and yeah.... that’s pretty much a nice Valentines day for me. And maybe later on if we're in the mood we can go to some club or something where there is a Valentines day party going on or something like that. Otherwise after we are done with socializing and are at home alone we can end the day off with some massaging, and pleasuring each other
Hope I gave u an idea or two
Laterz...
I generaly prefer to have a chick BEFORE the day, so that on the day you can be romantic with her and KNOW her already, and you cant really do that with a chick you only met 5 minutes ago
.... But each to his own i guess, I'm just a romantic type of personLaterz....
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I generaly prefer to have a chick BEFORE the day, so that on the day you can be romantic with her and KNOW her already, and you cant really do that with a chick you only met 5 minutes ago
Laterz....
Not a love at first sight romantic then? (I dont belive in love at first sight)
However I will use V day as a day to get a load of numbers...(Remember...its just a normal day.)
Then i will have the romantic stuff on days to follow....when the resturant prices are back to normal and ****
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.