"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Any Don Juan Valetine traditions?
- Thread starter blinkwatt
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
However I will DEFO be out on the town sarging all the lonely girls looking for a valentine. It should be like shooting a fish in a barrel. I suggest everyone else does the same thing. It will be one of the best days to go out and pull.
~I don’t.... I see Valentines day as a normal day, just that this day gives me a reason to do something with a chick... For me Valentines day is a chilled romantic day where I will spend it with a chick that I choose. Chicks are out there looking for that romance on this day more than most other days, so take advantage of it, and just find yourself a chick and simply enjoy yourself with her.
Something I like doing is picking her up, going for lunch or something with her, then find something to do together, maybe go see a movie, or go to some Valentines day get2gether somewhere, then taking a girl to a beach and walking with her there while other couples are also walking on the beach.... then maybe have a little picnic on the beach and just cuddle and talk and have a few drinks and watch the sunset, etc... That can be followed by inviting some friends over (maybe 4 other couples) and just chilling, make a fire, chill with music by the pool, have a few more drinks, and yeah.... that’s pretty much a nice Valentines day for me. And maybe later on if we're in the mood we can go to some club or something where there is a Valentines day party going on or something like that. Otherwise after we are done with socializing and are at home alone we can end the day off with some massaging, and pleasuring each other
Hope I gave u an idea or two
Laterz...
I generaly prefer to have a chick BEFORE the day, so that on the day you can be romantic with her and KNOW her already, and you cant really do that with a chick you only met 5 minutes ago
.... But each to his own i guess, I'm just a romantic type of personLaterz....
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I generaly prefer to have a chick BEFORE the day, so that on the day you can be romantic with her and KNOW her already, and you cant really do that with a chick you only met 5 minutes ago
Laterz....
Not a love at first sight romantic then? (I dont belive in love at first sight)
However I will use V day as a day to get a load of numbers...(Remember...its just a normal day.)
Then i will have the romantic stuff on days to follow....when the resturant prices are back to normal and ****
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.