"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Any advice on this situation

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Rocko

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Ok guys, theres this girl at my work, HB7, who totally flirts with me all the time, i get the IOIs i give her IOIs, life is good. I didnt make a move before cause she had a superchill long term boyfriend. Today when i saw her at work, she told me she broke up with him, but now she doesnt seem interested with me, and its not like its cause of the break up cause she said she wants to bone a guy from her other work. Any ideas or advice i could get to try and get her back? i tried a bit of a freeze out, but all she kept sayin was that she wished the other guy would call her. please please please help :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taviii

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You're already in the LJBF zone. Its to late mate, you should have made a move earlier.
 
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Skilla_Staz

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Either shes trying to make you jealous. Or you're now a friend. No worries. Play it like you would if you just met her. C&F, Jokes, Kino, Have a life, etc. If she doesn't come around, who gives a sh*t
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dannowillbookem

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yeah you got friended. a good dose of kino back when she was still dating couldve saved this patient, but her interest has flatlined. i think we've lost her.

either that or shes in a coma, and only time will bring her out.
 
penkitten

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never date a co worker.
however, flirting is great.
 
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