"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Any advice on this situation

Rocko

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Ok guys, theres this girl at my work, HB7, who totally flirts with me all the time, i get the IOIs i give her IOIs, life is good. I didnt make a move before cause she had a superchill long term boyfriend. Today when i saw her at work, she told me she broke up with him, but now she doesnt seem interested with me, and its not like its cause of the break up cause she said she wants to bone a guy from her other work. Any ideas or advice i could get to try and get her back? i tried a bit of a freeze out, but all she kept sayin was that she wished the other guy would call her. please please please help :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Taviii

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You're already in the LJBF zone. Its to late mate, you should have made a move earlier.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Either shes trying to make you jealous. Or you're now a friend. No worries. Play it like you would if you just met her. C&F, Jokes, Kino, Have a life, etc. If she doesn't come around, who gives a sh*t
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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dannowillbookem

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yeah you got friended. a good dose of kino back when she was still dating couldve saved this patient, but her interest has flatlined. i think we've lost her.

either that or shes in a coma, and only time will bring her out.
 

penkitten

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never date a co worker.
however, flirting is great.
 
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